@27036 The more we attempt to be who we are not, the more we remain the same. -- Arnold Beisser #书摘
这句是说我们越努力尝试变成一个想要变成的人，我们就越呆在原处不动。我没太明白。书里接着说：Conversely, when people identify with their current experience, the conditions of wholeness and growth support change. Put another way, change comes about a result of "full acceptance of what is, rather than a striving to be different.
这句是说我们越努力尝试变成一个想要变成的人，我们就越呆在原处不动。我没太明白。书里接着说：Conversely, when people identify with their current experience, the conditions of wholeness and growth support change. Put another way, change comes about a result of "full acceptance of what is, rather than a striving to be different.
